GUGU ONPOINT

 We will all agree that separation is the most painful thing in a relationship of two that have been built with a purpose to last. no one wants to be apart from someone they hoped would live their lives together until the end. In some cases, though separation is the only option no matter how strong the love and feelings are towards each other and of course people deal with separation differently from others. In this post, I will mainly focus on those that might not know what to do in order to stay strong and forget the person and the relationship altogether. If you have difficulty and are frustrated about dealing with your separation below are a few pointers on how to let go and move on if separation is the only option 1. You are your own person remember that you are a different person and you deserve better and what suits your style and opinions about the type of a partner you want to have and that you owe no one explanation or pity when it comes to your priorities and maintainin...

 In life, we wanna fall in love and b with the people we love but most of the time the people we hope could love us do not, instead they use us and leave us frustrated. You can imagine why women these days settle for less, some women have decided to tolerate, being second class in a man`s life. women these days just to be in a relationship do not mind anymore, they do not mind whether the man is married, going through a divorce, or is complicated and has a lot of buggages. the reason being women wanna be with someone even if it means someone else`s husband or just a man that lives or claims to be separated and lives with his significant other. most women are traumatized because of this, so today I will talk about the disadvantage of dating a man that still lives with his ex, whether? and can he date you if you were in a similar situation? HERE ARE THE DISADVANTAGES OF DATING A MAN THAT LIVES WITH HIS EX 1.You will always be second: what I mean by this is that he will always put his...

                                         CHOOSE WHICH ONE IS BETTER FOR YOU Before I go further let me start off by reminding people of what is submission according to God`S word. Nigerian men have gone out of their way to subject women , normally quoting the scriptures or just saying that it is in their culture that women submit. they say this with pride not minding what a woman is put through in the name of of submission, I BELIEVE IN BIBLICAL SUBMISSION, BUT I FIND IT HARD TO SUCCUMB TO CULTURAL SUBMISSION, BECAUSE IT IS MADE OF HUMANS TO BENEFIT THEMSELVES, AND HIDING BEHIND THE "CULTURE" WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT SUBMISSION IN THE BOOK book of Ephesians 5: 21-31  Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God. 22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ i...