GUGU ONPOINT

  Being in love is indeed a good thing and the feeling is amazing , we all want to be in love with someone special , someone we feel deep for and we want to have that person to ourselves and the feeling of knowing you have someone that you call your own is out of this world. We want to be loved dearly and have some sense of belonging. In most cases it is not the case it could also be the feeling to feed wanted and needed and the freeness to be dependent on someone , but what happens when the person we love and admire is just something that is not what you need or want but you wish they were.? In most cases we find many people in toxic relationships or in relationships with people normal people can consider narcissist . let us now dive into the red flags that we see and ignore people of the strong feelings and love we have for our significant other. 1. Disrespects strangers: this is a red flag that you may ignore but it is crucial to pay attention to how your partner treats stranger...

 We will all agree that separation is the most painful thing in a relationship of two that have been built with a purpose to last. no one wants to be apart from someone they hoped would live their lives together until the end. In some cases, though separation is the only option no matter how strong the love and feelings are towards each other and of course people deal with separation differently from others. In this post, I will mainly focus on those that might not know what to do in order to stay strong and forget the person and the relationship altogether. If you have difficulty and are frustrated about dealing with your separation below are a few pointers on how to let go and move on if separation is the only option 1. You are your own person remember that you are a different person and you deserve better and what suits your style and opinions about the type of a partner you want to have and that you owe no one explanation or pity when it comes to your priorities and maintainin...

 In life, we wanna fall in love and b with the people we love but most of the time the people we hope could love us do not, instead they use us and leave us frustrated. You can imagine why women these days settle for less, some women have decided to tolerate, being second class in a man`s life. women these days just to be in a relationship do not mind anymore, they do not mind whether the man is married, going through a divorce, or is complicated and has a lot of buggages. the reason being women wanna be with someone even if it means someone else`s husband or just a man that lives or claims to be separated and lives with his significant other. most women are traumatized because of this, so today I will talk about the disadvantage of dating a man that still lives with his ex, whether? and can he date you if you were in a similar situation? HERE ARE THE DISADVANTAGES OF DATING A MAN THAT LIVES WITH HIS EX 1.You will always be second: what I mean by this is that he will always put his...

 I know that women these days wanna have love, attention, and someone to share their time and life with. due to the lack of men and their inconveniences,women have now decided, not to morally check where they are headed to and with whom, Most importantly what they  will tend to gain in their relationships with already taken care men. women are now more than ever before ready to be side-chicks or mistresses to any man as long as they get the love, attention, anD the AFFECTION THEY DESERVE. It´s evident that being a side chick needs some work and cant be easy as long as a woman is not being told the truth about the situation of her relationship with these married men. Right as you read I will tell you the disadvantage of dating a married man as a single woman   1. you will always be a secret No one will know about your existence , not his friends , family and even the wife herself. you will be the type that will have to go out of the room or endure it when he talks to ...

                             THE devilish LIES   It has always been the evil plan of supremists all over the world to fabricate lies of genocide. if it be that anything or any nation theatens their supremecy, today Black south africans are faced with this  evil, since they requested that  land be shared equally with  and be given to the  landless  black and poor people. This request seems to be a threat to the right wings suilanders and those who work with them afriforum and DA. So in order for them to prevent the sharing of land they have decided not just from now but  long before the call, to spread the propaganda of white genocide. With no evidence to this claim, not even bodies but affirm this evil Agenda based only on  numbers and fabricated % . They have forever failed to  present the murdered, or informing the police about the incidences. We can't ignore ...

why not be happy It is crucial to acknowledge the short life given to us by the most high and live it to the fullest, because it is our gift from the heavens. Let no one take that away from you ,not kids, not husband not friends,families and bosses. What's crucial in this world is to always remember who gave us that life and be Grateful to him who is called the creator of all the alpha and Omega the God of god's,  And  worship him at the right time be pure at heart and easy to forgive but yet live life to the fullest. Our Father gave this life to us and gave us + 10 comments to keep and live life So wasting life being unhappy or trying to please those who don't deserve will be just a waste of this gift. People should allow others to play a role in this world and enjoy it So if your children are just so disrespectful and can't allow you to live yes you gave birth to them but that want to mean they should kill you. Let them go as long as you know you'...

Mr Jacob Zuma on Twitter for the first time. Former president Jacob Zuma has had enough of people talking about him and pausing as him on Social media that he took a stand to say that he is joining in and in on the debates. He said that on a video directed to Twitter fans. He was firstly welcomed by the EFf leader Julius Malema and many other followers , who seemed really happy to hear this. Most twitted positive things in response. In less than 4 hours of post he was already with over 100000 views. So South Africa Hopes to be hearing from the former president and what he might have to say. It's refreshing nowadays to have to hear from the leaders direct. Before it wasn't so easy , so we may all say we have the Social media to thank Donald Trump has really set a tone on this matter.

Julius Malema The uncontrollably disgusting hate towards Malema Is it a crime for one to love himself and his own people more? Is it a crime to feel and acknowledge the cry of the people? Donald Trump's is allowed to say whatever he wants , so are the Racist white people in South Africa. For 400 years blacks all over had live with humiliating evil mindset of Caucasians all over. They had to endure all the name callings for so long that it hurts whites when blacks say enough is enough We are done pleasing you ,now we are focusing on serving and caring for our rejected ever humiliated blacks and we are working on uplifting their spirit into self love. Well that's what Malema is about , realizing that blacks are the most oppressed and hated all over for a invisible crime they didn't commit. He is about waking the South Africans up not into hate but into self-love . South Africans like the Americans and others have forever been raped,killed, humiliated,mocke...

south african video History written by whites need critical thinking We hear now that the blacks are on power different versions of real history. trying so hard to put blacks in a vulnerable position. Let's look at the truth and use logic. The reason for this lie is this White (Boers) are the most racist in the world even worst than any other caucasian due to the fact that they have enjoyed black enslavement for so long that they can't  stand to see themselves as ever been equal to any blacks. When at school we were taught how they came and entered via the cape met the Xhosa people who spoke deep Xhosa( called them khosa and they could not pronounce the word "xhosas"(khosa) fought against them won, and started to develop the cape via slavery. During that time made seeds (coloreds) in means of rape since most Xhosà women were housemaids. The fruit of such altrocities)was (coloreds) mix race)  (Xhosas women never mingled with whites.face  the fact that  they we...

BY GUGU Most people especially couples are so selfish that they tend to think only for themselves, especially when their marriage is under attack, couples need to identify what the Devil uses in order to enter into our lives destroy our family, couples need to joint hands and fight against that by never ever departing from the most high and constantly pray for  God to give them strength to never give up on their marriage for the sake of God's word and the kids. Children suffer because people marry for wrong reasons and never fear separation. The Devil attacks us by showing us most of our spouses flaws, uses what couples say to each other during misunderstandings, to bring hate and disrespect between the couples. That's why couples should be very careful of the words they utter when angry, because words do stick in our hearts and minds. If it has happened that negative hurtful words had been said and you beginning to hate your spouse please do try this. Trusting...

People are always frustrated and looking for companion, and it seems as if real friends are hard to find because of the way the world has turned into. People are too selfish to even consider friendship, people are all about what they can get never what they can offer to grow someone. Now these says, friendship shouldn't be about going out or meeting guys or ladies, it should be about finding the right associate, that loves and fears God. When you search for a friend search for someone that is always thinking and talking about how to please God. Let your calls and sms be based on how wonderful God is and the wonderful imaginations of paradise. Stay away from friends that are too materialistic. Friends that think life is all about the finest things.Friends that will make you wanna go out of your way to meet up with things of this world, remember that the bible talks against all fleshy things, reminding you that it's even better to store your treasure where thieves do not en...

THINGS NOT TO DO FOR SOME Foreign  MAN  Women  tend to want to nurse and pamper our men, which is ok, until when the pampering gets too much and risky or let me say when a man tries or takes advantage of it. Love is Good but as for THOSE who used to be love blind thinking about the future of THEIR partners WITH THEM, leaves them looking like desperate women and ready to do anything. Some men  don't understand a relationship whereby both parties work hand in hand to achieve somethings, Some just believe in taking the full responsibility.Some  men may appreciate the fact that their woman is a hustler and independent  but some won't, they may just use that as a motive to use you and dump you when  you are no more valuable. I might not explain this term accordingly but am sure many get the point. Women should learn to refrain from being the first ones to fall in love with a man, loving a man first for a woman leads to many heartbreaks and unwan...

All the time you will hear the j word reasonable saying that South Africans are jealous of other African Nationals in South Africa, I beg to differ. The question one must always ask before judging is for what? Some will say because they live better than black South Africans, the question is how many black South Africans are you living better than? They make more money in South Africa than blacks. How do you make it? Well to be brutally frank NO south African is jealous of Other Africans black or whites South Africa has a lot of black South African millionaires who made their money earnestly. Some say South Africans do not travel. The question is to go to where? When you come to South Africa yourselves?   And for what when all they need is in South Africa?  Should they leave their country for you?  Also, South Africans are all over the world working in bigger companies, they are just too decent to be standing in other nations' streets selling drugs and robb...

South Africans are the most beautiful women in Africa, blessed with full body and curvy firm backsides. They are mostly light in complexion no need to bleach skin, with pointed medium sized noses and totally white teeth,  blessed with soft skin and number 1 flat tummy.  They are also blessed with a kind heart, they can help whoever at whatever time, They love to be happy more than anything, they love to enjoy themselves and remain stress free, they are easy to forgive and move on in whatever bad situation they may find themselves. They are mostly mistaken for being easy, stupid and naive, well if being kind and never expecting evil is being stupid then Good for you. South Africans are naive because they never expect anyone to behave in an evil manner, they believe everyone deserves to be happy and given  a second chance. They may know that you are lying and deceiving them but still do as you want hoping you will feel bad or remorseful and change from your evi...

In our days we see people going to churches claiming Christianity , they will go in and out of Churches and praying for everyone thinking they are supernatural or they possess some powers. You will  see them in the front seats in churches, following up, in Church activities such as   churches choirs l, fellowships and ext. They are deceiving themselves and people around them who do not know what real christendom  represents. Well, let me tell you. Whatever the reason maybe, That makes you think you real. these are the real reasons you are a  fake, Christians. Just so that you will know . You are not a real Christian but fake one if you do What am about to state below. do not try to fool yourself by giving yourself reasons in order to justify your unGodly acts, especially if you can not back it up with a bible verse. Fake Christians are so sickening. They take advantage of the True God and think they will not suffer  punishment one day. This is for a...