GUGU ONPOINT

BY GUGU Most people especially couples are so selfish that they tend to think only for themselves, especially when their marriage is under attack, couples need to identify what the Devil uses in order to enter into our lives destroy our family, couples need to joint hands and fight against that by never ever departing from the most high and constantly pray for  God to give them strength to never give up on their marriage for the sake of God's word and the kids. Children suffer because people marry for wrong reasons and never fear separation. The Devil attacks us by showing us most of our spouses flaws, uses what couples say to each other during misunderstandings, to bring hate and disrespect between the couples. That's why couples should be very careful of the words they utter when angry, because words do stick in our hearts and minds. If it has happened that negative hurtful words had been said and you beginning to hate your spouse please do try this. Trusting

People are always frustrated and looking for companion, and it seems as if real friends are hard to find because of the way the world has turned into. People are too selfish to even consider friendship, people are all about what they can get never what they can offer to grow someone. Now these says, friendship shouldn't be about going out or meeting guys or ladies, it should be about finding the right associate, that loves and fears God. When you search for a friend search for someone that is always thinking and talking about how to please God. Let your calls and sms be based on how wonderful God is and the wonderful imaginations of paradise. Stay away from friends that are too materialistic. Friends that think life is all about the finest things.Friends that will make you wanna go out of your way to meet up with things of this world, remember that the bible talks against all fleshy things, reminding you that it's even better to store your treasure where thieves do not en

THINGS NOT TO DO FOR SOME Foreign  MAN  Women  tend to want to nurse and pamper our men, which is ok, until when the pampering gets too much and risky or let me say when a man tries or takes advantage of it. Love is Good but as for THOSE who used to be love blind thinking about the future of THEIR partners WITH THEM, leaves them looking like desperate women and ready to do anything. Some men  don't understand a relationship whereby both parties work hand in hand to achieve somethings, Some just believe in taking the full responsibility.Some  men may appreciate the fact that their woman is a hustler and independent  but some won't, they may just use that as a motive to use you and dump you when  you are no more valuable. I might not explain this term accordingly but am sure many get the point. Women should learn to refrain from being the first ones to fall in love with a man, loving a man first for a woman leads to many heartbreaks and unwanted pregnancies and never

All the time you will hear the j word reasonable saying that South Africans are jealous of other African Nationals in South Africa, I beg to differ. The question one must always ask before judging is for what? Some will say because they live better than black South Africans, the question is how many black South Africans are you living better than? They make more money in South Africa than blacks. How do you make it? Well to be brutally frank NO south African is jealous of Other Africans black or whites South Africa has a lot of black South African millionaires who made their money earnestly. Some say South Africans do not travel. The question is to go to where? When you come to South Africa yourselves?   And for what when all they need is in South Africa?  Should they leave their country for you?  Also, South Africans are all over the world working in bigger companies, they are just too decent to be standing in other nations' streets selling drugs and robbing. Make this