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WHO STILL BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE?
temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and
each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her
conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does
not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise
the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife
does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a
limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come
together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control. ...
Nowadays people marry , for different reasons, some marry because they are in-love and want to spend the rest of their lives with their significant other , but does that ever happen!
some marry because they do not want to have a child out of wedlock,
some marry because they feel they are old enough to make a family
some marry because their friends got married
some marry because their spouses are rich or come from a rich back ground
some marry because their parents said so
No one can say exactly why? people marry because there are a lot of reasons.
When they eventually marry it is hard for most men and women to keep up with the protocols of marriage. They fail to stay faithful to their spouses, I can say 80% of the worlds population has failed and we keep wondering why!? married couples separate many times and get back together many times and at that, they use the opportunity to be unfaithful and later argue that, they were not together when a cheat incident occurred. What a shame!
When marriage gets hot and frustrating spouses normally look for solutions in the comfort of others , thus ruin marriage code. The worst thing between married couples is cheating. This is the most painful part of any marriage. Why spouses cheat? is really a matter of no respect for God and his standards for marriage or no acknowledgement of God´s principles. Spouses fail to be faithful to one other not because it is impossible, but because they are selfish and wicked towards their own body and have no respect for their spouses.
Most women have failed to give their husbands the respect due to them, because of the humiliation,stress and disrespect encountered in their marriage. They end up with no respect at all.
Men too have failed to love their wives , because of the disrespect they encounter in marriage ;
The truth is that if women fail to show respect to their husbands no matter the situation , they will never get the love they deserve .
When men fail to love their wives the way they should, they will never get the respect they need and deserve.
The bible is clear that a man has to love his wife as he loves himself and it encourages women to show deep respect for their husbands.
What does this mean? it means you can love your husband as much as you want but if you do not have respect, it is a wasted love. Men deserve to be respected no matter what , as the bible puts them as ' heads' of a woman. No man in this world even if he is (BROKE) ever sees disrespect as Deserving. He might not act to it , but his love for you will drop dearly and there is nothing you can do about it. Men do not like to be shouted at , that is the truth , men want to be showed respect and be treated with respect can you shout at a king!? of course not , no matter how annoying and stupid the king is he still holds the TITLE, this is heavy am telling you. Most women use equality. Yes, we are equal but we have different duties in marriage.
AS for we women in order to keep our marriage, it is crucial to show deep respect.
Think, have you had anyone respecting you before? , how did you view the person? were you able to be wicked towards the person? of course not! because the person did not give you reasons to. Respect brings about great love for whoever that is respecting you. When someone shows respect you naturally develop un- conditional love for that person! think about your child, I mean for those that have respectful children , don´t you just love them, when they listen to you? when they talk to you with respect , when they sit you down and ask you questions pertaining a certain matter. Don´t you feel happy when you shout at your child if he\ she does something upsetting and they just keep silent, admit and apologize and learn from their mistakes!?
Don´t you agree that if one day you offend your child and he\ she comes to you in the same manner that you would remember your child`s respectful behavior and act with respect towards whatever complaint your child might bring to you?, because you would not want to act in a way that your child will change from a good child, with a good manner of approach, to an ill - mannered child, goes the same way with men, the way you train them that is what they will give back to you. Why I would not say women have to focus more on loving their husbands is that women fall in love easily and mostly only marry whom they love, but after that respect is the key since love is already there.
for men to keep their wives from unfaithfulness is that they will have to love their wives, deeply in a way that they see their wives as themselves. They should check themselves and see how they would feel if anything bad should ever happen to their wives , this is part of self evaluation, men need to to love their wives as flesh of their flesh never think to bring harm to them , always wanting to see them happy, if men love their wives everything comes together , self sacrifice, patience , ext .
What love is, is recorded in the bible
1 Cor 13: 4-7
ABOVE ALL PUT GOT FIRST, PUTTING GOD FIRST HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHURCH FREQUENCY, GOD IS EVERYWHERE , WE HAVE MANY EXAMPLES OF SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES IN BIBLICAL TIMES WITH NO CHURCHES.
PRAYER IS A KEY AND ONE CAN PRAY ANYWHERE.
WE DO NOT NEED TO HAVE A SPECIFIC INDIVIDUAL PRAYING FOR OUR MARRIAGE.
IT IS A MAN TO HIS GOD.
1 Cor 7: 1-40
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the
temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and
each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her
conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does
not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise
the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife
does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a
limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come
together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of
self-control. ... Nowadays people marry , for different reasons, some marry because they are in-love and want to spend the rest of their lives with their significant other , but does that ever happen!
some marry because they do not want to have a child out of wedlock,
some marry because they feel they are old enough to make a family
some marry because their friends got married
some marry because their spouses are rich or come from a rich back ground
some marry because their parents said so
No one can say exactly why? people marry because there are a lot of reasons.
When they eventually marry it is hard for most men and women to keep up with the protocols of marriage. They fail to stay faithful to their spouses, I can say 80% of the worlds population has failed and we keep wondering why!? married couples separate many times and get back together many times and at that, they use the opportunity to be unfaithful and later argue that, they were not together when a cheat incident occurred. What a shame!
When marriage gets hot and frustrating spouses normally look for solutions in the comfort of others , thus ruin marriage code. The worst thing between married couples is cheating. This is the most painful part of any marriage. Why spouses cheat? is really a matter of no respect for God and his standards for marriage or no acknowledgement of God´s principles. Spouses fail to be faithful to one other not because it is impossible, but because they are selfish and wicked towards their own body and have no respect for their spouses.
Most women have failed to give their husbands the respect due to them, because of the humiliation,stress and disrespect encountered in their marriage. They end up with no respect at all.
Men too have failed to love their wives , because of the disrespect they encounter in marriage ;
The truth is that if women fail to show respect to their husbands no matter the situation , they will never get the love they deserve .
When men fail to love their wives the way they should, they will never get the respect they need and deserve.
The bible is clear that a man has to love his wife as he loves himself and it encourages women to show deep respect for their husbands.
What does this mean? it means you can love your husband as much as you want but if you do not have respect, it is a wasted love. Men deserve to be respected no matter what , as the bible puts them as ' heads' of a woman. No man in this world even if he is (BROKE) ever sees disrespect as Deserving. He might not act to it , but his love for you will drop dearly and there is nothing you can do about it. Men do not like to be shouted at , that is the truth , men want to be showed respect and be treated with respect can you shout at a king!? of course not , no matter how annoying and stupid the king is he still holds the TITLE, this is heavy am telling you. Most women use equality. Yes, we are equal but we have different duties in marriage.
AS for we women in order to keep our marriage, it is crucial to show deep respect.
Don´t you agree that if one day you offend your child and he\ she comes to you in the same manner that you would remember your child`s respectful behavior and act with respect towards whatever complaint your child might bring to you?, because you would not want to act in a way that your child will change from a good child, with a good manner of approach, to an ill - mannered child, goes the same way with men, the way you train them that is what they will give back to you. Why I would not say women have to focus more on loving their husbands is that women fall in love easily and mostly only marry whom they love, but after that respect is the key since love is already there.
for men to keep their wives from unfaithfulness is that they will have to love their wives, deeply in a way that they see their wives as themselves. They should check themselves and see how they would feel if anything bad should ever happen to their wives , this is part of self evaluation, men need to to love their wives as flesh of their flesh never think to bring harm to them , always wanting to see them happy, if men love their wives everything comes together , self sacrifice, patience , ext .
What love is, is recorded in the bible
1 Cor 13: 4-7
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. When men love their wives they will be patient with their wives, from mood swings, their wives nagging and even see those nagging as a joke .They will realize that their wives are of weaker vessels thus they need love and more of it, I talk about men loving their wives rather than respect because men easily respect women , but it is hard for a men to love. Respect towards women is natural for men but not love, so men have to work on loving their wives am not talking about trying. am talking about making sure, before you marry that the love is natural all other bonuses of love come naturally , like the bible mentions.
ABOVE ALL PUT GOT FIRST, PUTTING GOD FIRST HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHURCH FREQUENCY, GOD IS EVERYWHERE , WE HAVE MANY EXAMPLES OF SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGES IN BIBLICAL TIMES WITH NO CHURCHES.
PRAYER IS A KEY AND ONE CAN PRAY ANYWHERE.
WE DO NOT NEED TO HAVE A SPECIFIC INDIVIDUAL PRAYING FOR OUR MARRIAGE.
IT IS A MAN TO HIS GOD.
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