Disadvantages of being a side chick

 I know that women these days wanna have love, attention, and someone to share their time and life with. due to the lack of men and their inconveniences,women have now decided, not to morally check where they are headed to and with whom, Most importantly what they  will tend to gain in their relationships with already taken care men. women are now more than ever before ready to be side-chicks or mistresses to any man as long as they get the love, attention, anD the AFFECTION THEY DESERVE.

It´s evident that being a side chick needs some work and cant be easy as long as a woman is not being told the truth about the situation of her relationship with these married men. Right as you read I will tell you the disadvantage of dating a married man as a single woman 

 1. you will always be a secret

No one will know about your existence , not his friends , family and even the wife herself. you will be the type that will have to go out of the room or endure it when he talks to his wife about their bills, the kids and the dinner she cooked  and probably if he will wanna bath together and ext

being  A WOMAN WHO WILL BE TOLD TO SHUSH WHEN HIS MOTHER OR DAD CALLS IS WHAT YOU WILL BE AS A SIDE CHICK. his friends wont know about you because they will be probably against him dating you and some wont mind him keeping you as a spare wheel for as long as it does not destroy his family and he does not take you seriously

2. You will always be anxious

enxiety is another major problem to side chicks who still have some values of queenology left in them. you will always feel , unloved , not sure about where you going and what time you are coming back in the nature of your relationship, reason being that he will tell you a lot of his unending stories that seemto be too  difficult to comprehend . you will feel used as he will see you when he wants which may be few hours  once in a week , the worst the guy will be banging you in your house and using bedsheets that he did not think of changing to nw ones that suits him. you will be anxious cause you may not even know where he lives. He will make you anxious by giving you false hopes even when you did not want them hopes that he will leave his wife or that he is there cause of the kids ext. you will be so anxious and delusional that you may even think of such a man to marry you.

3.  Always a booty call

You may think is love at first unit you confront youin the truth. dear a married men will only see your value once he knows he will get sex or better still an outing, he will look forextraordinary sexual plans and sexual activities. this typeof a man will be ready to force and manipulate you into having sex with them even if it were that type of a place  and people there deserve some sort of respect. whAT MARRIED MEN WILL WANT FROM YOU IS ONLY SEX AND EXPERIMET ONLY. He will call you when his wife denies him sex , infact you are more of a destruction from his daily activities . married men even though they don't give as much as they should to women they are using in their homes.   

4. His Therapy

Married men will drain you with the unending projects of complaints,  they will tell you how terrible and bad their wives are and how they want to to leave and start a life with you and how they are trying to see if you will make a good wife or a good role model to their kids. he will try to compare you with his wife depending on hi moods swings  he will want you to listen to what he is planning about her.

5. Dating gone

Most of these married men who date single ladies  will actually tell not to cheat them

The truth is they are looking for an exciting relationship where they feel they are still men  and wanna control and ext. they are the first one to tell you to not date anyone but them . #selfishness number one. these men will be the ones asking you who you have dated before them and bla bla bla , # manipulation. why would a man living and sleeping with another woman ask you not to  date anyone? is that not selfishnesss. if you do that you will be punishing yourself as a woman because you will spend most of the time as a woman who does not date but be sexually used by men who will never be theirs. Married men use side chicks as practicing grounds for them to boost their ego and get the best sexual styles that they can not get from their wives.

6. Wont find Mr right

You wont find Mr right if you continue wasting time with this dude who on his own chose a woman , married her and now he is confused about her. He says he is unhappy but the thing is he is not leaving but wanna be having you why:? you can not call him at a specific time cause the wife he claims he is unhappy with is there: if he really is unhappy why cant he leaves, he claims is cause of the kids kkkkkreally? that's all married men excuses not to leave their marriages and have side chicks for pleasure and use the separation key so that they do not give you the benefit of a side chick while they treatbyou like one, they keep you in hopes that he will finally leave his awful wife and be with you someday. this keeps you from finding a man that belongs to you that you can ride yourself with at anytime not this confused already taken male who is not even ready to own up and let either of the two go

last note

 as single ladies I urge you to refrain from these married and confused men with kids who want to be using you as their practicing grounds . you as a woman need to take a deep thought into this madnes and made the hardest and the most peaceful decision, that decision is toleave this married men to fix his things and at the same time not use you as his sexual slave . most men think women owe them sex especially married men . I hope the single ladies are ready for this type of lover. (accepting to date a man is not accepting to sleep with him

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